Why Recognizing Residents as the Lifeblood of your Business Drives Success

It’s still unfortunately common for property managers to see their relationships with residents as adversarial. After all, there seems to be a constant stream of residents submitting maintenance requests, calling in with complaints, and paying their rent late, right? They’re taking up our time and preventing us from doing important work, aren’t they?

Sure, it can sometimes feel that way, but at Nestwell, we want to recenter the conversation on residents as the lifeblood of our business. By recognizing residents as the key to our success, we can develop better relationships, keep our team, our residents and our investors happier, and deliver better business results.

Without residents, what do we have?

The truth is, without residents, property managers don’t really have a role to play. The way I see it, all property management activities start with someone showing interest in and renting a property. Only once we have residents in place can we start collecting rent, earning our fees, and generating value for our clients.

The first of every month, when rent is paid, is a new heartbeat. It injects more life into our businesses. Without those residents, the whole thing collapses.

Most property managers recognize that when it comes to the leasing process, but they don’t often carry that same mindset through the full lease term. As a profession, we tend to invest a ton of time in getting the home rented, but we don’t continue that investment through the full resident experience.

We have to change our mindset and recognize that residents are important every day, not just the days that they cut us a check.

The high-maintenance subset doesn’t represent all residents

A lot of the bad reputation residents get comes from a very small—but very loud—minority of residents. Maybe 5% of residents cause a whole lot of pain and headaches for our teams. They pay late, or they fail to report big maintenance issues, or they keep unregistered pets. But the other 95% are great residents who do their best to pay on time and follow the rules. 

Unfortunately, because we mainly interact with that difficult 5%, we start to feel like that’s what all residents are like. We have to actively keep in mind that most residents are great, and they deserve our support and appreciation. At Nestwell, we believe that even that 5% deserves appreciation. We try to make a focused effort to see things from their perspective, to understand that they’re people with a lot going on in their lives, just like us.

Changing language changes behavior

That mindset shift isn’t easy, but it starts with the way that we talk about residents. For starters, we use the term “resident” instead of saying “tenant.” These are real people with families, emotions, and needs, so we try to humanize them with language. Even in contracts, wherever we’re legally allowed to, we’re switching to “residents.” All of our help articles use that term. We’re trying to make it the standard as much as possible.

Beyond just specific words, we’re changing how we talk about our residents in general. Property management is a tough job, so it’s completely natural to want to vent to your teammates. We want to commiserate, we want validation that we aren’t the only ones going through it. The problem is, ranting and complaining about residents sets a negative tone, and that gradually becomes the default around the office. The negativity carries over to the next interaction with a resident who maybe didn’t do anything wrong at all, and it starts to form a cycle. You lose the ability to separate out the good residents from those few negative residents. That’s why we never want to set a dynamic on our team where it’s okay to speak ill of residents. Instead, we want to be positive and upbeat.

Approaching property management with positivity and joy might seem like a difficult proposition, but it really does go a long way. It encourages professionalism, pulls residents into the same mentality, and makes tough conversations a little bit easier. Ultimately, a positive attitude drives better resident experiences.

Be a solution seeker

One of our core values at Nestwell is to be solution seekers. When a problem arises—which tends to happen most days in property management—our job is to solve it. We start by separating the core issue at hand from the emotions of the person reporting it. We assume positive intent, and that the resident coming to us with a problem is trying to do the right thing. We try to get at the root of the issue, rather than getting defensive or biting back. That mindset is essential to keeping positive relationships with our residents.

Providing value creates value in return

I recently read the Arbinger Institute’s Leadership and Self-Perception, and one of the key takeaways is that humans are naturally myopic. Instead of looking at the bigger picture, we focus on what we ourselves need. But in order to be a leader, we need to learn how to get outside of our own little boxes. We need to see what others need and we need to express compassion.

There’s tremendous value in doing our jobs well, having that compassion, and being good to people instead of just begrudgingly checking boxes. We can humanize our residents by understanding them and helping them, and that has value in and of itself.

And if you aren’t fully bought in on this altruistic approach, remember that when you help others, they’re more likely to help you. When you create a better resident experience, you’re more likely to get lease renewals and positive Google reviews. When you create a positive environment in your office, your team members will be happier and more motivated.

Empathy, engagement, and understanding are just good business.